C'est La Rentree!! It's Back to School in France 2015

The beginning of another School Year in France!!

Yesterday marked the beginning of this school year for my girls.  For each of them, new adventures, new things to learn and a time to see their friends again after the summer holidays!  In France, I have to say it's more common that families go away together or go visit relatives for the majority of the summer - so other than summer camp, the girls don't see too many of their friends over the summer months.

Only one of them, my middle daughter (11 years old) has changed schools.  She's very excited this year to make the transition from elementary school or Primaire as they call it here to college or middle school, as she enters 6eme (6th grade equivalent).  She will join her older sister at the same private catholic middle school here locally.  The middle school's here are 4 years, so incorporate 3eme (or 9th grade).  This allows my oldest daughter and middle daughter to be in the same school.  They haven't been together since we first moved here 4 years ago.

La Rentree is an exciting time for French students - unlike in the States where one knows their classes and teachers ahead of time - it's a big surprise here on the first day of school.  Class schedules, teachers and everything else is revealed then.

For my youngest, she's in CE2 (3rd grade).  For the first day of school in France, parents escort their child to school and for one of few times during the year - parents & children are welcomed into the courtyard.  On the side wall are the class lists and sections.  Each year depending on numbers in each class, there are solid one-level sections and also combined 2 level sections.  This year, my daughter is in a one-level section having 2 teachers - the director of the school, along with another teacher 2 days a week, while the director is doing administrative days.  She was happy to see her friends again and pleased with her teachers.  The Director opens the day with a welcome to all - introduces the teachers and then reads the class lists.  The teachers then take their respective classes to their classrooms....off she goes...another school year has begun - and the parents file back out of the school courtyard.  All of this happens in about 10 minutes.  It's nice to see the other parents again - although many, like myself were in a hurry to move on to work.

For our college, they choose to have each class start separately with partial days over the first two for each level - yesterday was 6eme & 4 eme (6th & 8th) - today was 5 eme & 3eme (7th& 9th).  This meant that my older 2 girls started a day apart. There is then a day of school orientation for the 6eme level which will be held tomorrow and officially all classes at all levels start on Friday morning.

It's a bit complicated and not at all like the American schools where when you start - you begin fully and you have been given your classes and teachers ahead of time.  I  think this makes it a bit hard to prepare and organize ahead of time but because this first week is slow - it does allow students to ease into the start of the year.

We did get the classroom supply list ahead of time, and that does ease some anxiety in the preparation process.  However, I have to add that in France the school supply list is very specific and often very long.  They have many different kinds of notebooks, sizes and types of lines...it very much depends on the teacher as to what each of them want and what kinds of pens, agendas, white board and glue...  We are slowly mastering this process as we start each new year.  I have finally learned many of the specific terms for school supplies - Like a "Lutin" is a notebook of clear plastic folders designed to place sheets of paper in.  Then there is the difference between the Cahier de Text & l'Agenda.  The former being a simplified daily assignment book for younger students.  

Because of this tapered start, it gave each of my older daughters an extra day off during this first week.  For my middle daughter, she started yesterday, but had today off.  This allowed me to spend the morning with her - as we ran final errands - like getting her public bus/tram pass and picking up any last minute items.   Always fun to have some special one on one time with each one of them.

We managed to get our school supply shopping done in early August and had time to find the "perfect" backpack for back to school.  My older girls each chose Eastpaks -and my youngest an adorable "Little Marcel" backpack.  In this sense - finding the right back pack and also a few new outfits for "Back to School"/La Rentree - France is very similar to the States. 

As we all had a busy summer traveling - I thought it would be lovely to take the final weekend in August and just rest and relax.  Rejuvenate- before the start of the school year.  Instead of just staying home, we headed out to our new favorite Chambre d'Hotes located near Agen (about an hour from here) - La Larroquinere (I wrote a post on this guest house -here .  The have a lovely pool, beautiful open space for meandering around - plenty of animals to enjoy - dogs, cats, chickens, sheep etc...and various amusements for families (ping-pong, trampoline etc..)

It turned out to be a beautiful HOT and sunny weekend and we so appreciated being able to enjoy a cool pool.  It was nice to disconnect from the Internet, relax out in the open sun and just enjoy some family time!!

I would certainly consider that plan again, as I know it did all of us some good.  It was a great time to relax and reconnect. I felt very refreshed upon our return to the city on Sunday afternoon.  The girls still had one more day to begin organizing.  For me - Monday the 31st of August marked my return to work.  Yes, I do work part-time, but often the days I work are long or blocked together - but so fun!!  It was nice to begin with some great energy after the summer vacation and the final weekend away!

These final 2 collages are from Google's new application of  "Revisit this day".  It's fun to see their old back to school outfits, smiles and hairstyles.  How much they have changed, how much they have grown!  Gone are the years of preschool or maternelle - this family now has 2 middle schoolers and one daughter right in the middle of Elementary school.  Where does the time go?  How fast they grow...love their styles and their smiles!!

Bonne Courage everyone who has their Rentree or Back to School happening now!!  It's a time of excitement and a time of nostalgia.  The years press on...each one starting with the renewed excitement of an new year to come!!  I would love to hear about your Back to School routine if you have one.

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Education in France - Our experience of choosing schools as expats

Our School in France

Schools - Where do we start?

I can't believe it's already October.  School has begun to settle in for the girls, it's beginning to feel a bit like Fall - although it's been very warm.  Truly - I'm not complaining about the weather - it's actually been beautiful.    This area is so pleasant when the sunshine is out.

I recently read a post from another expat who described how they selected schools for their children when they moved abroad.  It got me thinking about our experiences here in France.  When you are moving to a foreign country - the whole system is different and new.  I still remember the stress and the back and forth we went through as we chose schooling for our girls.  As I have said before - one of the primary reasons that we choose this adventure was to have the girls experience the other half of their heritage and also become bilingual.  Even though my husband is French, my girls really couldn't speak French before we moved here.  Yes, they knew a word or phrase or two...but for the most part - my husband and I did a lot of translating for them, when we would visit the French relatives.

Now  Bordeaux,  France like other places around the world, has several different schooling choices, there are international schools, private catholic schools and public schools.  Initially, my thoughts were like any other protective parent.  My girls didn't speak French, so I checked into the International school, which was advertised as bilingual with a strong emphasis on English.  (Now our situation was a bit different than other expats - as my husband is directly employed by a French company here - so. our education/schooling costs were not covered -as they are in many expat packages).  Looking at the tuition and the fact that we were reducing ourselves to one income this particular school was not a realistic option financially. So that option was out.  As we cut this option out early on due to financial reasons, I didn't look too much more into their programs - other than I knew they were bilingual in design.

A friend of mine in the States pointed out that immersion is an excellent way to learn a language and my children were certainly young enough to benefit from directly starting in French schools.  (At the time we moved here - My girls were entering Grade 5/CM2, Grade 2/CE1 & in Pre-K/Moyen Section).  She also reminded me that we were lucky as my husband was a native speaker.  As I pondered these thoughts, it made a lot of sense, what better way to help my kids become bilingual.  I figured we could also hire a tutor, if we needed to for my older daughters.

As my husband & I talked about possible immersion options - we were concerned especially about my oldest.  How far behind would she be?  Would she be able to catch up?  Would she be able to successfully complete the 5th grade curriculum?  Would they allow her into the grade level she's suppose to be in, even though she didn't speak the language?  Would she have to repeat the grade if she doesn't meet the expected standards?  Like most parents, we wanted to set our girls up to succeed, but at the same time, it was very important to us for them to learn French.  My husband's schooling experience in France was that the system was rigid, strict and non-forgiving.  From his memories, it was not as relationship-oriented or the positive confidence building one as the American education system.  He was very concerned about how our children would feel and would the teachers be understanding, as our girls had a different background than traditional French students.

We started leaning toward immersing them right into French public schools.  I had to imagine we were not the first or last family to ask this of French schools.  We figured we would speak to the schools and hire a tutor to help our oldest girls.  I think we were feeling pretty good about this decision - I kept telling myself that the girls were still young - and  they could do this.  It wouldn't necessarily be easy, but I had faith that we could get through this with the right support.

Then we met with the relocation specialist who was helping us find housing.  Obviously, one of the biggest questions about housing was where were we going to send our girls to school.  This decision would guide her about where to look at houses.  We confidently answered that we would place them in public French schools.  This answer was met with hesitation and then the BIG question - Do they speak French?  When we answered - a firm "No", she came back with her concerns and fears of placing a foreign child into the public French system.  Yes, they were the same concerns we had....They would be lost, they wouldn't understand, it would be really hard.  My French family had also voiced these same concerns a few days earlier.  We knew them well.  The fear of failure, the fear of being uncomfortable, the fear of being lost....

We explained that the International school was not an option for financial reasons.  She understood that, but suggested a private Catholic school that had what they called "International" sections.  These schools were use to educating foreign students in addition to their majority French population.  The curriculum was French, but as children got older, there would also be an "advanced" English section and even certain subjects could be taught in English.  When we asked about cost, she explained that tuition for private catholic schools is relatively small compared to other private schools.  The tuition cost is about $1,000/year.  However, an additional cost  would be lunch and since these schools are not public, they don't get National or Federal assistance - so that would increase the cost.  We could always opt for the girls to eat at home.  This sounded like a great compromise.  My main question (coming from a raised Protestant) was how "Catholic" were these schools?  I'm all for learning about religion, understanding it's history and significance - but didn't want the Catholic doctrine pushed onto my girls as the only option.  We were told that even though these school were founded and supported by the church, the religious component has become optional.  The students only took a religion class if they wanted do.  This was fine for me.  So, we had a French school, the girls would be immersed but have the understanding and support of teachers who were more comfortable working with non-French speaking students & it was affordable.  Sounded like a good option to me.

So we began looking at housing with a particular school in mind but also be close to my husband's work. However, this was the beginning of August.  One of the facts about French life is that many businesses and stores close during August for summer holidays.  This school was no exception.  They wouldn't be opening until the end of August.  So we wouldn't be able to visit the school, speak to anyone or even know if there was space for my daughters until then.  We got our housing figured out, returned to the States and waited.  The relocation specialist, our French family and us were pretty relieved to have made this decision - it seemed like the best of both worlds.  I could sleep at night!

The end of August rolled around, we called the school the day it re-opened and were met with the Bad news...No, they were full!.  We couldn't even talk to anyone, they were full.  Yes, we were welcome later on in the year to apply for the following year, but at this point, there was no room for this year.  Okay, there went the the perfect plan, the compromise and all the fears came swirling back....our option now...public French school.

Now, I'm a believer that things happen for a reason - events take sudden turns but in the end, things will eventually work out.  So when my husband arrived in France at the end of September, he headed off to the Town's Mayor's office to register the kids for school.  We were assigned the closest Primary and Pre-school to us (They luckily had space, as if they didn't you might get assigned another school in the town). My husband was to meet directly with the directors of the schools and finish the enrollment process.

I have to say, this is where we got super lucky.  The director of the Elementary school herself was bilingual and she understood our predicament.  She reassured my husband that the girls would be fine, the teachers would ease them into French work.  They had had a few other foreign students in the past, and by the end of the first year, these kids were fluent in French - my 2 older girls were at a good age to learn.  She even gave my husband a name of a tutor who could help our girls.  At the Pre-school/Maternelle, my husband had the same experience, a welcoming environment and an understanding of our situation.  Here, too, the Pre-K/Moyen Section teacher was also bilingual, so could understand my daughter's English.  (Which my youngest daughter continued to use for the next 3-4 months)

Sample homework assignment in CP/1st grade - Sept.

So, in the end, our girls starting off in French public schools turned out to be a great experience.  This is not to say that first year was not without it's ups and downs.  It was definitely an adjustment.  Days of headaches, being overwhelmed, stomach aches, tears and frustration of not understanding.  My youngest daughter took about 4 months to speak in French.  We met all of these challenges head on but with the belief that the girls would be fine.

Fun Carnival at the Maternelle

Every one's experience is different and I do feel we got extremely lucky with our public schools near us for that first year.  Presently, my 2 younger daughters still attend that same primary school and we continue to be impressed and happy.  My oldest daughter, who just began  5eme or 7th grade has probably had the toughest time adjusting and catching up.  As she was in CM2/5th grade when we moved here, after that first year, she transitioned to college/middle school.  Unfortunately, that public school was not a good academic experience for her or us and last year, in the middle of her year, we transferred her to another college.  That whole story is another post to write and maybe I'll write it someday.  She is presently attending that very same Private Catholic school that we had first heard about and we are content once again.

A couple ending reflections - I think just like in the States there are always teachers that are extremely good at what they do.  There are also teachers who are not the best.  My impressions of a classroom here in France is that overall they are a lot quieter than in the States.  Yes, there is interaction between the teacher and the whole class.  This depending on the teacher's personality can be more animated, funny or fairly dry.  But when the kids are asked to complete assignments, it is done in silence.  It's taken seriously and kids are expected to sit and work quietly.  The whole atmosphere is a lot quieter than an American classroom.  Very simply - there is a time and place to do things.  Classroom equals school work - recess and lunch equals time to chat and talk with your friends.  The elementary teachers here teach everything - regular curriculum, art, music,and PE.  There are assistants who supervise lunch and recesses, but the rest falls on the teacher.

With all that said, I will stop here - this post is already long enough.  Just wanted to share our experiences and especially that early part of moving here and choosing our schools.  Any feedback, comments or questions are always welcome - would love to hear about other families' experiences.